Do You Know What the Day is Today?

Saturday October 22nd

Let’s take a look at some of the things people are celebrating on this day of the year!

Personally, today is Party Day for 2 of my 4 children!! My daughter’s 9th Birthday is Halloween, and my sons 11th is October 25th, the same day ask Niki Minaj ;] so for as long as I can – I’ve had their parties together & I will do so until they ask me not to!!

It works out though! They are only 2 grades apart & get along with all of each others’ friends :).

So this Day in 2022, ( and probably a few others years as well ) Is Our Friend BDAY Partyyy Day!!! YAY!! (plus we celebrate on their actual birthday’s with family)- We should make this a National Holiday!! Nat. PJAB PARTY DAY!! 😉

Other than that, there are LOTS of things to be celebrated today, Let’s see what we got!

Happy National Nut Day!!!

The Irony?? My son is allergic to TreeNuts!!
Source: National Today
Source: NPR

Make A Difference Day!

Celebrate if you have a Friend (s) Named Anna, Diego & Lauren!!!

Step out of the Box of Black & Whites & Celebrate COLORS!!

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Off to get Ready for the Party!! I’ll be back later to add more 🙂

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Who is it that keeps us going?

The rock.

The stone.

The glue that keeps the pieces together.

The beds would not be made,

Homework would not be done,

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Teeth would not be brushed, faces left unclean & eyes would never leave the screens.

Dishes might be done, but not put away-

Dinner would be made, but sit out for days and days.

Laundry might be clean, but not folded nor put in it’s right places…

If mom wasn’t here – there’s be so many empty spaces.

Coats and sheets would stay dirty,

So would the floors.

Never mind the shower- the toilet bowl would be a horror.

Love would still be given,

Love would still be felt,

But questions would be ignored & everything would melt…

Books would go unread and maybe things would go unsaid –

Like Mama keeps every household going – even when she’s no longer glowing.

Do You Know What Day it is?

Friday October 21, 2022

Do you know what day it is?? It FRIYAY!! Well duh!! We knew that… Right? Some days… I do, whilst other days I completely do not. Especially during the Pandemic. I lost all sense of tracking days. As a matter of fact, since the Pandemic began, I’ve lost all sense of time.. but that is for another day. Knowing the Day/Date is not what I mean today. Today, we’re talking about National, International, & Global, holidays. Every Day is a holiday somewhere. Take Full advantage of that and celebrate at least a little something every day!! Lets take a look at today’s Holidays. I am not sponsered by, but typically use the website, ” NationalToday.com”, to check in on the holiday’s and anniversaries of the day! Let’s see what they’ve got for us today.

Source: DrJockers.comhttps://drjockers.com/iodine-deficiency/

Global Iodine Deficiency Disorder Prevention Day…

Did you know? Iodine can be related to hormone balances, and can be linked to thyroid normality’s and abnormalities.

International Day of the Nacho…

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Try this Great Nacho Recipe from Simply Recipes, to get your celebration started !!!

Source: simplyrecipes.comhttps://www.simplyrecipes.com/recipes/nachos/

National Mammography Day…

While it reads, October 16th, it is on the list of today’s holidays. So how could I leave this one out?? Early Detection= early treatment= Life.

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National Check Your Meds Day… for free Medical Advice –

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Celebration of the Mind Day – My Favorite celebration of the Day!!!

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Celebrate your mind- Get Free Advice regarding your meds- Eat tons of Nachos, and be aware of your Iodine intake!!

There are a ton of other “Holidays” Today, these are just a few that really stuck out to me!! I’ve added links to a few other great things that you can Celebrate on this Day below!! Check them out and let us know what your favorite one is??

Have a Nacho Recipe that is worthy of a celebration?! Share your recipe in the comments! :]

Did you Celebrate any of these today?? Tell us which ones, why, and how you chose to Celebrate on October 21st!!

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October 21 Holiday List...

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What is icd and how to control it? ( impulse control disorder)

https://lighthouserecoveryinstitute.com/blog/understanding-impulse-control-disorder-addiction/

There is a reason I choose to write about Impulse Control Disorder today.

I’ve always been a wicked impulsive person. It’s primitive. It may have even gotten worse with age. Maybe. However, I’ve never really been able to, tried to understand it.

It’s not easy to wrap your head around something that you cannot visibly see. Society wants us to just accept things for what they are because they say so. However, not everything. How can I accept something when I can’t even understand it? I’ve never been one to want to do the work, the research, I just want the know, the knowledge. Instant Gratification.

The word impulsive, derives from the word impulse.

Being a person who acts on impulse, or an impulsive person, means one that acts before, or without thinking about it. “Acting or Done without forethought.”

Let’s shine a little light on a part of society who needs to know they are not alone.

What Is Impulse Control Disorder?

Impulse control Disorder is a behavioral disorder, one where the person really has no control over their behavior. Triggers can be things like anger, sadness, fear, or an overwhelming amount of uncontrollable emotions.

Having emotional overloads – Not knowing where to put your feelings, or who to be mad at. So you may seem like your mad at everyone– including the wrong people. Including Yourself.

Most impulse control disorders are initially apparent during childhood or adolescence. They can still be evident during adulthood. Acts of defiance and anger can be attributed to normal child development. Those with impulse control disorders will exhibit longer-lasting episodes of aggressive behavior. 

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Impulse control disorders tend to share four specific commonalities:

  • The person repeats the behavior despite any adverse consequences suffered.
  • They have little control over troublesome behavior.
  • The person seems to experience an overwhelming urge before exhibiting the behavior.
  • The person seems to take pleasure from the behavior.

When impulse control disorders go untreated, they can impact the person’s quality of life. Many can result in legal problems or financial ruin.

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Common Types of Impulse Control Disorder

This my friends is tough. It’s a hard pill to swallow.So grab your tall glass of ice water, or your medium hot coffee from Dunkin’, and take it down.

Cheers!!!

No, but really!! This stuff really makes my chest tighten, my heart feel squeezed. Nightmares may or may not be made of this stuff.

Some of the most common impulse disorders includes diagnosis’ such as; pyromania, trichotillomania, kleptomania, intermittent explosive disorder, compulsive sexual disorder, the list goes on.

Visit First Light Recovery’s (FLR) website to find self quiz’s, blogs, help lines, phone numbers, programs, contacts , and so much more IFY!!

Below, you’ll find a list of some of the different types of impulse control disorders, accompanied by a brief description of each type. This list was copied directly from the website of First Light Recovery. You can find it here.

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Conduct Disorder

Conduct disorder is a pattern of aggressive behavior towards others. These behaviors include breaking the rules at home, in school, and among their peers. Rule violations can be severe. Behaviors that cause harm to others, such as bullying and cruelty to animals, can be a part of this disorder.

Trichotillomania

Trichotillomania is when a person obsessively and intentionally pulls out their hair. It is significant enough that the loss of hair is noticeable. Ultimately, the condition can lead to social isolation and occupational disability. Trichotillomania is considered to be an obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Pyromania

Pyromania is an impulse control disorder where the person has an uncontrollable urge to set fires. They are aware of the damage this behavior can cause, but that doesn’t stop them. Pyromaniacs usually have a fascination with fire and watching things burn. They do not set fires to destroy things intentionally but experience relief from lighting things on fire.

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Compulsive Sexual Behavior

Compulsive sexual behavior, also known as sex addiction, is an overwhelming preoccupation with sex. This behavior includes masturbation, promiscuity, pornography, exhibitionism, voyeurism, or fetishes. In small doses, these behaviors can be relatively healthy; however, for a sex addict, they become obsessive.

Over time, sex addiction becomes more of a means of reducing anxiety than seeking pleasure. This disorder can cause distress, destroy relationships, and potentially lead to social, occupational, financial, and legal consequences.

Intermittent Explosive Disorder

Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) is most commonly seen in childhood. It primarily involves defiance, uncooperative behavior, or anger directed at those in positions of authority. Every child will naturally show mild forms of these behaviors. A diagnosis of ODD will come when this behavior lasts longer than six months and interferes with the child’s daily interactions. While ODD is treatable, it can later evolve into conduct disorder if it goes untreated.

Kleptomania

Kleptomania is an uncontrollable urge to steal things. Most of the time, the things taken are not things that the kleptomaniac needs. They are usually items that are small and carry very little value. 

This impulsive control disorder is considered to be rare and incurable. Treatment has been shown to end the cycle of this compulsion.

Compulsive Gambling

Compulsive gambling is also known as pathological gambling or gambling disorder. It is an uncontrollable urge to keep gambling even when it is ruining a person’s life. 

Compulsive gamblers will keep gambling until they have emptied their savings and are in debt. They have been known to steal money or write bad checks to be able to keep gambling. This disorder can destroy relationships and leave the compulsive gambler in financial ruin.

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The Co-Occurrence of Impulse Control Disorders and Substance Abuse

Another fact is that its pretty common for individuals with ICD to also have substance abuse disorder. This is what we call co-occurrence or comorbidity to 2 conditions.

The National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) estimates that approximately half of those with substance use disorder also have a mental illness. 

Individuals with impulse control disorders may start abusing substances to self-medicate. Unfortunately, their tendency towards compulsive behavior can translate to an addiction to illegal drugs or alcohol. In some cases, impulse control disorders lead to substance abuse, while in other cases, the opposite is true.

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Learning about Mental Health is important, at any and ALL ages. I say we treat mental health as a Subject in school, and touch base with it in the most age appropriate way possible behind school doors.

Knowledge is Power.

They may think that feeding us this knowledge gives us a dictionary of excuses for poor or bad behaviors- but if we know and learn this stuff right from the get – we can potentially avoid and or resist the natural urges we have to push our limits and see what we can get away with.

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What are your thoughts on ICD???

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Resources

Firstlightrecovery.com

Etymology of Impulse on en.wikitionary.org

CDC.gov- CDC's Mental Health Tab

ClevlandClinic.org

National Health Service - Mental Health Tab

National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) - Comorbidity - Substance abuse Disorders & Mental Health

Mayo Clinic on condition called Kleptomania

Mayo Clinic . org - Compulsive Sexual Behaviors

Mayo Clinic. org - Intermittent Explosive Disorder

WebMD - on Comorbidity

Do I have OCD? OCD Self Test by First Light Recovery

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Home alone…. “ After all these years”…

1st installment of the Home Alone series-

This is completely unrelated to the Home Alone Franchise, The Walt Disney Company, Disney+, 20th Century Studios, 21st Century Fox, or any other Big Name producers, Studios, etc – that sound slightly different but are all pretty much the same company.

America Runs on Stay at Home Moms, they we are the ones who run on Dunkin’. The world in its entirety, runs on sahm’s. We keep the wheels turning in our homes, and we are the wheels of our families.

I’m not taking away from providers, however, they run on us too (yah, I know how it sounds). However, some SAHM’s do a lot of the providing themselves too.

I’ve been told many times that Most Moms do not have the ability to be a SAHM. That, Most working moms would kill to be a SAHM. It’s made to sound like being a SAHM is the easiest, most luxurious job in existence.

Yet, there is no Placement Test for being a SAHM. There is no training, no instruction manuals or how-to- Guides on being a Mom, never mind a Stay at home Mom.

It almost sounds like being a SAHM is a Career path, a goal that one should strive for in Life.

 Don't mistake my words, not yet at least.

As if being a SAHM isn’t the oldest job in the history of “jobs”, next to that of the “sex worker“.

See what Merriam has to say about that 

As if women didn’t spend decades, no centuries, fighting for the right to leave the home, go after their dreams, and have goals and aspirations of their own.

As if being a SAHM does not effect the Mental Health, the Wellness, and the overall Health in general, of a woman.

There is no rule book that tells you where and when this road leads to. All we know is that when our kids are 5, they go to Kindergarten. What we don’t know though, is when our “Job” as a stay at home parent, ends.

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Having a SAHM is in fact one of the Greatest Gifts that a family can be blessed with. It is one of the most Selfless, whole hearted, Thankless Gifts that we can give to our family. Having a SAHM can alleviate lots of additional family stressors too, like having to send your children to Daycare, or paying for additional child-care for before and after school.

Many kids will say that they’d prefer having one Stay at home Parent. One who will can chaperone every field trip, make it to every practice, and be at every game and every play without having to dip into their weekly income. One who can drop them off at school, and then be there to pick them up after school. All of those things are beneficial to us as well, because if we were working, we wouldn’t get to do all the things.

There are countless benefits and advantages to being a SAHM, as there are countless drawbacks and disadvantages too.

Being a SAHM, is a Gift. It is a blessing, and truly, one of the most selfless acts of love. It is instinctual and comes natural to most women, but it does not come to us free of charge.

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It is a gift to have the ability to be there the moment your children wake up in the morning, until the very minute they go to sleep at night.

It is a gift to be able to cook breakfast, lunch, and dinner, all from the very Kitchen of your own home, for everyone, every.single.day if you really want to.

It is a Gift to be able to hang out with your Toddler at the park at any time of day that you want, or go stroll around the mall aimlessly with your toddler in tow (money permitting) .

It is a Gift to be able to sit home, binge watching Netflix series after Netflix series, Movie after Movie, while your children run amuck together around the house, or even better, while they’re in school.

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It is a gift to be able to wash, dry, and Fold, your laundry all in the same day while simultaneously watching TV and playing with your kids.

Did I mention that being a SAHM is a Gift?

You can do anything you want to do when your a SAHM, really. However, the one thing you should know is, you should Not sit around doing whatever the hell you want to do every single day. You should Not do whatever the hell you want to do, especially if you want to do nothing.

Maybe the first year, sure, that would could be self acceptable, for a little while anyways. At least until all of your children are school aged, then you might not be as self accepting of your choices as you would have hoped.

Then it could have already become just another one of your bad habits.

The worst drawback of it all? You might happen to lose yourself. You may feel in the moments that, this is your purpose. That being a SAHM is your life, and, well, it is, but it’s not all of your life. There needs to be more. There needs to be hobby’s, skills and long term Goals. There needs to be a plan of action set into place for the day you are released of your stay at home duties.

People are always reminding us of how, “It goes by in the blink of an eye”, or to, “Enjoy them now cause’ it isn’t gonna be like this for long,” and as a society, we’ve come to accept that, some even embracing it.

It is human nature to expect things to happen the way they’re always supposed to happened. It is in some humans nature, more than others to be prepared, and or, to challenge what others would expect.

The day your youngest child goes to Kindergarten is a bitter sweet experience, more bitter if you are unprepared for what is going to happen all day.

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Today – I’m home alone, for the first time in over a decade- I do not have to do a damn THING ALL DAY if I don’t want to, but I should, right?

One might say that I’m an over-thinker – and I am – and during these school days, I’ve found myself wasting the hours away in worry. Worrying about what’s next for me. My thoughts race 90MPH from here to there and all over the place. Do I go back to school? Do I apply for a part time job? Do I want a career? Do I ever want to work? Do I want to open my own business? Doing what? Am I crafty enough? Am I good enough? Am I present enough? Do I spend enough time with my kids? Do I do enough? Do I do too much? Should I slow down? How do I slow down but speed up?? Why are there fruit flies in my kitchen? I should probably shower in the morning… What am I gonna make for dinner? Am I meditating for too long? Not long enough? Am I doing too much?

We are not alone. There are many of us who are lost, or just think we are lost. There are many of us over thinking every decision we have to make no matter how big or small.

Just for today I will quiet my thoughts, and be here, home alone.

Children’s Museum of Greater Fall River – Fall River, Massachusetts 02720

Children’s Museum of Greater Fall River – Fall
River, Massachusetts 02720

We started by entering the first exhibit; Violets Music Room!! 🎶🎼

It was SO much fun, but it was SOOO loud!!

The kids really enjoyed playing on the keyboard & playing pretend with the ice cream stand ( of course the one we have at home is never used – probably because there’s just too many options 🤷‍♀️)

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The Space station Exhibit was pretty Stellar!!!! The colors and all the opportunities the kids have to “control” the “space craft” – aka the lighting in the room – OUT OF THIS WORLD!!

Oh my goodness. This thing, the SUCTION TUBES- was SO COOL!!! It reminded me of when I would go to the bank drive through, put my slip in the machine& watch it get sucked into space!! ( well into the bank anyways ) –

There are arrows you can point in different directions to make the soft- balls go through and come out of different tubes! So cool, yet SO confusing!! I had NO clue how, nor could any of us figure out how; to make the soft ball come out from the very top tube…. which I guess I didn’t get a great pic of.. whoops

Dino Exhibit room!! Rockinnn!!! This room was pretty great!! With a rock half the tsize of the room, a dig pit for Fossils, and a flipped over Jeep Cherokee – This room was definitely a top Favorite of my 5 year old daughters 🙂

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This room was upstairs. You’d have to walk through the Space Station to get to it, and there are 2 bathrooms on either side of this room. We didn’t play in here as it was probably the warmest room in the place – But I had to get a picture of these Super cool XL Jumbo Blocks!! They’ve got holes in them, places to connect blocks.. You can build a “vehicle” or a fort, really whatever you can imagine up!! – I later learned that they call this Exhibit the, “Big Blue Block Area”, works well doesn’t it?

ah, here it is! The Jeep and the Fossil Dig Pit!! Pretty Neat- Oh eyy?!

I had to share this video as this was my absolute FAVORITE part of our visit to the Greater Fall River Children’s Museum!! The game floor, tiles, projector , eye games thinga- ma-bobber room!! Looking down at the floor tiles, you’d see a game screen as if you were playing on your phone, but instead of squashing the bugs with your thumbs, you use your body, and actually step/jump on them!!!

My 8-year-olds first reaction was… “ MOM I WANT ONE FOR MY FLOOR!!!” 🤣. Me too kid, me too!!

Aside from this game floor tile room – there was one other room that was definitely a favorite of mine, the “Doctor” room.

Unfortunately I didn’t get any pics or videos of the Doctor Room, ( my phones storage is completely and utterly full- so I couldn’t ) but i did get a quick little video on my sons phone and once I clear this phone up, I’ll add the video to this post!

There was a life sized version of the hasbro game “ Operation” and it was AWESOME!!

Now to be clear – this Children’s Museum is no “ Boston Children’s Museum”, but the parking is great – it’s easily accessible ( especially if you have a car), it’s FUN for kids ( 9 and under id day), it’s something to do, there’s activities there, an outdoor musical playground, indoor “playgrounds” aka exhibits !! It is a nice day trip that’ll take up about 2-3 hours of your day, if you take your time and enjoy each exhibit.

There are 8 downstairs exhibits & 5 upstairs exhibits.

They also offer a multi purpose room for birthday parties and group events!

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Barilla Lasagna Recipe – Insanely Good

Barilla Lasagna Recipe – Insanely Good

After another long and stressful day of worrying, questioning, and pondering thoughts, Dinner time rolls around and I have nothing.

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I cannot even wrap my brain around the question, ” What is For Dinner tonight?” So I googled quick and easy recipes, and came upon this easy peasy GEM from InsanelyGood.com –

The first, fastest and easiest lasagna I’ve found yet!!!

I packed the kids up and headed to our local grocery store for the supplies. After spending $100 more than I would have liked to, we came home and unloaded / unpacked all the groceries.

By now it was easily 6:30PM, and my DH isn’t a fan of eating dinner after 8PM. ( who is though?)

I hardly even believed myself when I said we wouldn’t be eating that late, but I still made the effort. This recipe did not fall short of everything I had hoped!!

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My family was all sitting around the table together by 7:35PM, each with a large helping of lasagna in front of them, that they were ALL looking forward to trying!

This recipe was so easy, fun and fast to recreate, it will for sure go down in our book of Epic Easy & Fast Family Friendly dinners and will definitely be one of my new Go-To Week Night Dinners at least Once a month!

Try this recipe yourself? Tell us about it!

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You could ….

Oh the things you could do, if you felt the way about me, that I feel about you.

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By Queenie

You could feel the way I feel,

You could hurt the way I hurt,

You could want the way crave,

You could need the way I need you,

You could love, the way that I love you

And even want all of the same things too.

You could wish the things I wish,

You could cry over someone, the way I cry over you-

You could want commitment the way I want it too,

You could do all of these things,

This I know is true –

But only if you were with someone new

Cause I know you’ll never feel the same about me, as I feel about you.

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